Curly Ends... 05/16/2012
 
I absolutely love my curly, open ends. I hope they never close!
 
 
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Stylists at So Curly, So Kinky, So Straight Salon
This weekend, the girls and I were going to Cleveland to visit Trader Joe's so we decided to stop by So Curly, So Kinky, So Straight. Now that all of our locs are longer, I've been wanting to take them to an actual salon to get them styled, just so they can see what it's like and possibly get a style that I can't do.  
What we could see of the salon was very nice, but we were told that there was only one person who does loc styling and apparently she is all booked up for the next few weeks. We were able to get in at the end of the month though. We'll see. Their prices for the styling is only $15, which I think is very reasonable.

After hanging out in Cleveland for a few hours, we came home and stopped to get some frozen yogurt. On our way out the door, we walked past a woman and her daughters, one of which was a teenager and one was younger, probably like four or five. They all had natural hair, the mother and the daughter has TWA's. Now, usually, I compliment other naturals on their hair. Almost always. But this time I was in a hurry and I just blew past them.

Liv waited until we were almost home to tell me that she'd overheard the teenage daughter say to her mother, "Look at their hair." Then the mother responded, "That's probably perm. Think, baby."

At first I was confused. Did she really think that our hair was relaxed? I mean, it's pretty obvious... Once I thought about it though, I realized she must have thought we had relaxers, but had gotten fake locs or something. Tripping. Because as far as I know loc extensions or fake locs are expensive and there is no way I would spend that type of money on three heads. 
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Her comment did make me wonder, why did she immediately jump to that conclusion? That not only was our hair not real, but that we weren't even natural?

Jeez. 

I wish I had heard her because I would have immediately corrected her. Not to be rude, but to inform. In a few years, her hair could look just as fake as ours, lol.Click 

 
 
 
 

Yes, Ma'am!!!

 
 
One of the first tables Liv and I visited was the Original LocSoc table. When we got to the Expo, it was around 2 o'clock, and there were a lot of LocSocs left. Not even 45 minutes later, when we went back to the table to pick out ours, they were almost gone! They were selling for $10 - expo pricing.
LocSocs are one of those things that I've heard a lot about, but have never really used before. Liv picked out a pink camo print, which she said was awesome because it has "glitter" on it.
I initially picked out a black one, but exchanged it for a black and white patterned print. I love it. 
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Liv stuck in her LOCSOC
Bri stayed home to go to the mall with her auntie, but I wish I would have picked her up one as well. She's already wearing mine around the house.
BUT - we couldn't figure out how to put them on! Thank God for the instructional pamphlet we got when we purchased them. 
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She figured it out - mostly! It's still inside out!
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Baby Bear Porridge from Lodielocks.com
Although there were a lot of product vendors at the expo, the only other product I purchased was the Baby Bear Porridge from Lodielocks.com. I applied some of it to the back of my hand and it felt light and smelled good - like sugar cookies. I bought it for my sister to use on her natural hair, since I really don't use butters (or porridge) in our locs. We'll see how she likes it.
 
 
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Malaika – Tamu Cooper
The 2nd annual Cleveland Natural Hair Expo was  held today at a Hilton in downtown Cleveland. It was packed up in there! So crowded, I feel safe in saying that next year, they can go head and secure a larger venue. The people will come. And that way, there'll be more room for vendors and classes and entertainment. Most importantly, there will be more room to walk around. I was only there for an hour and by the time I left, it was so crowded that we were bumping into folks left and right. I had to hold Liv's hand on the way out so I wouldn't lose her.

No sooner had we walked in, than we met Malaika-Tamu Cooper, owner of Dreadznheadz salon in Baltimore, Maryland. She is the organizer of this event, as well as 14 other natural hair care expos around the country. She was gracious enough to allow me to take a picture of her and her crown of locs.
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Malaika-Tamu Cooper
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Expo vendors selling their wares
There were plenty of vendors, plenty of jewelry and clothing and purses for sale. Lots and lots of hair products and salons. The stylists from SocurlySokinkySostraight salon, who hosted the event, were offering free hair consultations.
Aziza Yasmine of AIIZ Naturals held a class in a smaller room, but there were too many people inside for us to really see her or hear what she was saying. Too bad, I would have loved to meet her!

We visited every table at the expo at least once, including the Huntington Bank table, lol. The one person who I was dying to meet (I had her book tucked in my purse so I could get an autograph), but did not see was M. Michele George, author of The Knotty Truth. I feel really bad about missing her!

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Monica Green, owner of SocurlySokinkySostraight Salon, getting her make-up done
After about an hour, Liv and I had  had enough of the crowd. On our way out, there were a lot more people coming in, so there was a great turn-out. It was a very nice event, and I'm excited that so many people attended. 
 
 
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Liv's henna application
These pics are from September, the last time I did a henna treatment on all three of us. That was a weekend project for sure!I like to henna at least once every three months, but it's been a long time since I've done all three of us at once. Not sure if I will do that again... I loved the conditioning properties of henna when I was loose and I feel as though the henna still benefits our hair now. I don't really henna for the color change, since we'll only get highlights on our dark hair. Liv's hair is lighter than Bri's or mine, so she'll get more of a red tone than we will.

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Mehandi's Henna for African-American Hair
I have used henna from Mehandi before. They have a wonderful, finely sifted henna especially for African-American hair. Luckily, they are based not too far from where I live and their store, Empire, isn't too far away. 

I purchased two 100g packs, which I thought would be enough for all of us. But when I started preparing the henna, I started to doubt if it would make enough to cover our hair sufficiently. The last time I hennaed all three of us, I ended up not having enough for my locs.
I wanted to make sure that there would be enough for all of us, so I used the rest of a package of henna that I'd gotten from From Nature With Love a while ago. Their henna is not as expensive as Mehandi's, but it is not the same quality. I've gotten sticks and twigs and all kinds of loc-clogging stuff in FNWL's henna (the main reason I switched to Mehandi). 
I decided to sift the FNWL henna and add it to the other, better quality henna just to make sure there would be enough for all of our locs.
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From Nature With Love's Henna Leaf Powder
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I sifted the henna with a pair of old pantyhose and added it to the Mehandi henna. I probably had close to 300g total. In the past I have added a few tablespoons of paprika or rose petal powder...but I didn't this time. 
I mix my henna powder with 1 bottle of lemon juice (I'm pretty sure it was 16oz) and enough water to make it the consistency of yogurt. 
I covered the bowl, and let it sit on the counter until the next day. Right before using it, I like to add about 1/4 - 1/2 cup of honey. I don't measure, I just squirt it in the bowl until it's the right consistency.

I always wash our locs before we apply the henna. We get our henna gear on (old clothes, old towels, old glasses and plastic gloves) and spread an old sheet on the floor to protect it. Like I said, this is a project.
It usually takes a while to apply, to make sure that the henna is all over the locs. First I "paint" it on with my hands, then squeeze it into the section I'm working on. When I do it for myself, I'll ask the girls to spot check it for me and make sure I've covered all of my locs.
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Bri doing the henna thang
I just realized that I don't have any pictures of myself with henna on! My son was my photographer that day and I think he'd tired of the job by the time I finished with the girls. But he did ask me to henna his hair, and I had enough after I was done, so I hennaed his hair too.
The girls had had enough after four hours (and so had I), so we washed it out in the bathtub. Rinsing, rinsing, rinsing until the locs are relatively clean. Then I use Suave Naturals conditioner (2 bottles for the four of us) a few times and rinse the hair more.  I've come to realize that the water will never come completely clean, and we just have to wash the hair over the next few days to get residual henna out.
And that's that. Whew. 
 
 
Bri loves to pull her hair into ponytails. Tight, tight ponytails that are very cute, but damaging. As a result, she had stretched one of her locs almost to the breaking point.
My first thought was to just cut it off. I didn't think I would be able to fix it since it  was hanging on by only a few strands. I decided to knot the hair where it had been stretched. I had to slide the knots into the place I wanted them to be...I think I tied four or five knots.
As you can see, it's not smooth and there is still a space where it's thinner than the rest of the loc. I'll probably reinforce the whole area with thread at some point, just to be sure it doesn't snap off, but for now it's still hanging in there.
 
 
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My 10 year anniversary was January 18, 2012! I can't believe it's been that long. I remember the day I cut all my hair off, I was soooo excited. Ten years later, I'm still excited. 

Over the years, my blog has been through several incarnations. Bear with me through this transition - I have big plans for my second decade of nappiness!